NEWLYWEDS

After you get married, especially at such a young age like me (25 is still young i think, not too young though) you will be in situation that you have to live with your parents including your husband and your kid. In Indonesia its common to do that, because we don't have a law that makes a children has to be on their own after they get 18 or more, means they are no longer their parents responsible. So, having their own house for newlyweds is not a priority. Sometimes parents makes us to stay with them, they don't want to let their kids away even we are grown up enough, or they want their kids stay because they always wants their grandchildren to be around them. Well there's bad and good thing for this situation, good things is we know exactly that our parents love our kids same as we do, they will care if anything happens, they will be worries if they get sick and other things, and the bad things are, what our parents wants for our kids is not the same like we do.

These days, young generation is more modern and develop, to rise their children they will apply what doctor said rather than what the elders said. If we live in the same roof and there's a difference about that, its a serious problem. There will be arguing, debating, and become a conflict. It makes us helpless and desperate, because we don't want to hurt our parents. Finally we will become the ones who feels guilty and we have to changes. Not a good choice i think, as a young generation we have to be better right? we have to keep forward, not backward. Well, i hope this tradition will change, not now i know but i'm sure Indonesia is going to be a developed countries and changes the way of thinking their citizens.